So I havent written in a while to any of you because to be quite honest with you all you just haven't been that important to me. I don't know you and you don't know me. So considering how life has been for me you all have been on the back-burner for me. My apologies.
So I decided since it is now officially 2014, I would write to you all a message of hope. I hope many of you celebrities will take this new year as a time to look inwardly. You are all human beings and are not perfect. However you have all taken paths in your lives where whether you like it or not, you are judged daily on how you live your life.
There is nothing wrong with being yourself. However, its one thing to live your life your way and then get upset when you are called out on it. When you make mistakes, own up to it. Reese Witherspoon did when she acted a fool when her husband got arrested and got herself in handcuffs for acting ridiculous. She apologized and acknowledged what she did before the press even got out because she KNEW she was an idiot at that moment, OR she is actually smart enough how to handle herself in the press. Learn from her.
I think we as your public need to take some responsibility as well. I think we all need to stop looking for drama from you all. We are too up in your business and clearly many of us kinda look for you to screw your life up. Its horrible. I acknowledge this is also a factor. However, what we do and what you do are two totally different issues. You cant control us. You can control you however.
Remember your fans though. Remember that without those who look to you for happiness, inspiration, info, whatever, you wouldnt have the career you have. Yes you will have talent but as someone who is trying to get her talents seen by the masses, I have learned that sadly its a freaggin popularity contest as well. You can have little to no talent and you can have all the talent in the world. The moment you insult your fans or hurt them, thats the moment your talent means dick. Im sorry that you want your freedom to be whomever you want and you have this heavy burden. However this is the career you wanted. You didnt want this, you shouldnt have strived for it.
So I wish all celebrities to have a great new year. I hope you have success. I hope that you are healthy. If you have demons you need to control I hope you beat them and get yourself on track. I hope you learn a lot this year and I hope to see some people become better human beings.
Good luck to you all.
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Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Sunday, September 22, 2013
Dear Taylor Swift.....
Babe, just so you know. I congratulate you on your success.
You are a gifted singer. You write from your heart and I respect that. You are beautiful and I gotta say, you seem to be a genuinely nice person. No joke! You seem like someone that genuinely does her best to be sweet to everyone when you are in their presence because you were brought up to be a respectful woman. I commend that.
Now I will be truthful, I am not a huge fan of your music. Its nothing personal. I get why people like it. I just am not a fan of the genre really. Has nothing to do with you as a person.
I just wanted to give you some advice...
Stop dating so much. I know its hard. I cant even imagine what its like to date in the public eye. I know this isnt completely your fault but yes, you have dated many men the past year or two and hun, its not looking good for you.
See this is how the world is seeing it:
You date a guy, you write a song about them.
You claim you are this girl who does nothing but sit at home and watch tv or whatever (I watch Ellen honey, Ive heard you). then you date another guy and write a song.
Everything that has happened in your life you write a song about it.
The more people you date, the more its looking like YOU are the problem and not these guys.
Being a young adult woman in the public eye is clearly a difficult task. You are judged daily. 24/7. For a growing woman trying to experience life that is a horrible thing to go through.
Look, you seem like a great girl but what you are presenting to your fans is this idea that you dont believe you are whole without a man in your life. You have not shown anyone that you are capable of being single and just being a strong independent woman.
There are young girls out there that are looking up to you and what they see is a woman that is desperately looking for love and when it doesnt work out she talks shit in her songs.
I understand as a fellow singer/songwriter that yes, it is the BEST way to express yourself and get your feelings out. However you need to think about these men who you feel have wronged you. Yeah maybe they were douchebags. Perhaps they deserve the backlash of people assuming the song is about them. However they arent all terrible and I dont think they deserve to be ridiculed on national tv. You can sit there and say a specific song isnt about Harry from One Direction yet its not believable if you are performing that song on stage and then mock a British accent and pretend to be the "boy". It makes your claim not hold water.
Look you do what you want. Its your life. However understand that having a significant other in your life cant make you whole. Especially when you have yet to become YOU. Learn about yourself. I know you think you know all you need to know but trust me you dont. These relationships arent going to work if you continue to date date date and not fix fix fix. We are human, we are all flawed. If they arent sticking around maybe its something about you. I know its them too I mean hello, it takes two to make a relationship but considering the amount of men youve dated recently, I would look in the mirror a bit more. Are you needy? Clingy? Too over the top? Not enough? Are you in their business? Too self involved??? I mean these are things you need to find out about yourself.
I applaud you for starting to have a sense of humor about it all. I remember at the Golden Globes it was said you were not happy with Tina Fey and Amy Poehler for their wisecrack about keeping your hands off Michael J Fox's son. It was a joke hun! You should have laughed because you need to be aware you have dated a lot of men.
Hey, if you just told the world "Hey i love dating men!!!Its fun fun fun!!" Good for you! Thats not what youre doing though. You are telling the world you need to be in love without telling the world. Be in love with yourself first!!!
I hope you do find your true love one day. I just hope you know you dont need to have someone in your life to be whole.
You are a gifted singer. You write from your heart and I respect that. You are beautiful and I gotta say, you seem to be a genuinely nice person. No joke! You seem like someone that genuinely does her best to be sweet to everyone when you are in their presence because you were brought up to be a respectful woman. I commend that.
Now I will be truthful, I am not a huge fan of your music. Its nothing personal. I get why people like it. I just am not a fan of the genre really. Has nothing to do with you as a person.
I just wanted to give you some advice...
Stop dating so much. I know its hard. I cant even imagine what its like to date in the public eye. I know this isnt completely your fault but yes, you have dated many men the past year or two and hun, its not looking good for you.
See this is how the world is seeing it:
You date a guy, you write a song about them.
You claim you are this girl who does nothing but sit at home and watch tv or whatever (I watch Ellen honey, Ive heard you). then you date another guy and write a song.
Everything that has happened in your life you write a song about it.
The more people you date, the more its looking like YOU are the problem and not these guys.
Being a young adult woman in the public eye is clearly a difficult task. You are judged daily. 24/7. For a growing woman trying to experience life that is a horrible thing to go through.
Look, you seem like a great girl but what you are presenting to your fans is this idea that you dont believe you are whole without a man in your life. You have not shown anyone that you are capable of being single and just being a strong independent woman.
There are young girls out there that are looking up to you and what they see is a woman that is desperately looking for love and when it doesnt work out she talks shit in her songs.
I understand as a fellow singer/songwriter that yes, it is the BEST way to express yourself and get your feelings out. However you need to think about these men who you feel have wronged you. Yeah maybe they were douchebags. Perhaps they deserve the backlash of people assuming the song is about them. However they arent all terrible and I dont think they deserve to be ridiculed on national tv. You can sit there and say a specific song isnt about Harry from One Direction yet its not believable if you are performing that song on stage and then mock a British accent and pretend to be the "boy". It makes your claim not hold water.
Look you do what you want. Its your life. However understand that having a significant other in your life cant make you whole. Especially when you have yet to become YOU. Learn about yourself. I know you think you know all you need to know but trust me you dont. These relationships arent going to work if you continue to date date date and not fix fix fix. We are human, we are all flawed. If they arent sticking around maybe its something about you. I know its them too I mean hello, it takes two to make a relationship but considering the amount of men youve dated recently, I would look in the mirror a bit more. Are you needy? Clingy? Too over the top? Not enough? Are you in their business? Too self involved??? I mean these are things you need to find out about yourself.
I applaud you for starting to have a sense of humor about it all. I remember at the Golden Globes it was said you were not happy with Tina Fey and Amy Poehler for their wisecrack about keeping your hands off Michael J Fox's son. It was a joke hun! You should have laughed because you need to be aware you have dated a lot of men.
Hey, if you just told the world "Hey i love dating men!!!Its fun fun fun!!" Good for you! Thats not what youre doing though. You are telling the world you need to be in love without telling the world. Be in love with yourself first!!!
I hope you do find your true love one day. I just hope you know you dont need to have someone in your life to be whole.
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Dear Justin Beiber.....
You are my first letter to a celebrity on my blog. Congratulations! I would just like to say I feel you are a very lucky man for all the success you have had.
However hun, you're really scaring me.
I'm worried. I know you don't know me. I know in your eyes everything is coming up Beiber!
Justin, what happened? You were this cute little kid who had Usher on your side, loved his mom, and truly showed what a hard working guy you are.
Now, don't get me wrong. I was never a fan. Sorry just being honest. I am not a fan of your music. I find your fans to be annoying as all hell. Your Beliebers can be scary. However, its a matter of taste and you were very deserving of your fanbase with all the hard work that you clearly had put into it.
Having said that, I'm truly disappointed in the way you have been carrying on the past couple of years.
I know, I know, you are growing up. You have the right to be wild and go ballistic. Yes, you worked hard and earned that right. However earning the right to have fun is one thing. The idea that your fun requires the disrespect of others is another.
You wanna smoke pot, get (ugly ass omg) tattoos, and have an OCCASIONAL loud party is fine. You're at the age where thats normal.
However, nightly loud parties in a gated community where people have fucking 9 to 5 jobs the next day (something you know NOTHING about) and they may have kids who have school the next day (again something you know NOTHING about) is fucked up. You know it.
Spitting on fans who are there waiting for YOU (yeah we saw the pics, Justin, even after you demanded that they be removed) and LAUGHING at them even when that little girl (who at MOST was 13) was crying and mortified was horrible. You should fucking be ashamed of yourself.
You have been breaking the law and acting like you are indestructible. You're not. No one is. You are going to get yourself hurt. What sucks about it is, with the way you have been acting, when it happens, there is a good chance no one will even give a flying fuck except your mother. What sucks about that is, even though we are all individuals and we make our own mistakes in life, she will blame herself. She will, whether she is responsible or not. I know you love your mom. I saw that in the doc and dammit its an awesome thing. I truly truly admire that.
You are fucking shaming her right now. People are watching your antics and they are already blaming your mother for allowing you to have a career at such a young age and bypass the normal things kids do. You didnt learn things you should have learned and they are going to blame her. Do you really want that? Have you been so hypnotized by the spotlight that you have forgotten about everyone else except yourself?
Look. I truly hope you are just going through a phase. You are a young growing man and this is very common. However you need to be told this is not ok. There is a reason why you get a lot of hate. I dont support those who hate you because of your music. I actually hate when people do that because music depends on the person. Not everyone is going to like the same thing and to hate someone because of the music they make is ridiculous. However people who think you're a douche bag because of the things you have done or said is totally different.
You are capable of having a lifelong career but the things you are doing right now are juvenile and immature. That may work for your Belieber fans now but remember, they will eventually be grown ass women who will think you are a tool for not having matured along with them.
I truly hope for the best for you, as of now though, its time you are put in the corner to have some alone time to focus on what youve done.
However hun, you're really scaring me.
I'm worried. I know you don't know me. I know in your eyes everything is coming up Beiber!
Justin, what happened? You were this cute little kid who had Usher on your side, loved his mom, and truly showed what a hard working guy you are.
Now, don't get me wrong. I was never a fan. Sorry just being honest. I am not a fan of your music. I find your fans to be annoying as all hell. Your Beliebers can be scary. However, its a matter of taste and you were very deserving of your fanbase with all the hard work that you clearly had put into it.
Having said that, I'm truly disappointed in the way you have been carrying on the past couple of years.
I know, I know, you are growing up. You have the right to be wild and go ballistic. Yes, you worked hard and earned that right. However earning the right to have fun is one thing. The idea that your fun requires the disrespect of others is another.
You wanna smoke pot, get (ugly ass omg) tattoos, and have an OCCASIONAL loud party is fine. You're at the age where thats normal.
However, nightly loud parties in a gated community where people have fucking 9 to 5 jobs the next day (something you know NOTHING about) and they may have kids who have school the next day (again something you know NOTHING about) is fucked up. You know it.
Spitting on fans who are there waiting for YOU (yeah we saw the pics, Justin, even after you demanded that they be removed) and LAUGHING at them even when that little girl (who at MOST was 13) was crying and mortified was horrible. You should fucking be ashamed of yourself.
You have been breaking the law and acting like you are indestructible. You're not. No one is. You are going to get yourself hurt. What sucks about it is, with the way you have been acting, when it happens, there is a good chance no one will even give a flying fuck except your mother. What sucks about that is, even though we are all individuals and we make our own mistakes in life, she will blame herself. She will, whether she is responsible or not. I know you love your mom. I saw that in the doc and dammit its an awesome thing. I truly truly admire that.
You are fucking shaming her right now. People are watching your antics and they are already blaming your mother for allowing you to have a career at such a young age and bypass the normal things kids do. You didnt learn things you should have learned and they are going to blame her. Do you really want that? Have you been so hypnotized by the spotlight that you have forgotten about everyone else except yourself?
Look. I truly hope you are just going through a phase. You are a young growing man and this is very common. However you need to be told this is not ok. There is a reason why you get a lot of hate. I dont support those who hate you because of your music. I actually hate when people do that because music depends on the person. Not everyone is going to like the same thing and to hate someone because of the music they make is ridiculous. However people who think you're a douche bag because of the things you have done or said is totally different.
You are capable of having a lifelong career but the things you are doing right now are juvenile and immature. That may work for your Belieber fans now but remember, they will eventually be grown ass women who will think you are a tool for not having matured along with them.
I truly hope for the best for you, as of now though, its time you are put in the corner to have some alone time to focus on what youve done.
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