So I havent written in a while to any of you because to be quite honest with you all you just haven't been that important to me. I don't know you and you don't know me. So considering how life has been for me you all have been on the back-burner for me. My apologies.
So I decided since it is now officially 2014, I would write to you all a message of hope. I hope many of you celebrities will take this new year as a time to look inwardly. You are all human beings and are not perfect. However you have all taken paths in your lives where whether you like it or not, you are judged daily on how you live your life.
There is nothing wrong with being yourself. However, its one thing to live your life your way and then get upset when you are called out on it. When you make mistakes, own up to it. Reese Witherspoon did when she acted a fool when her husband got arrested and got herself in handcuffs for acting ridiculous. She apologized and acknowledged what she did before the press even got out because she KNEW she was an idiot at that moment, OR she is actually smart enough how to handle herself in the press. Learn from her.
I think we as your public need to take some responsibility as well. I think we all need to stop looking for drama from you all. We are too up in your business and clearly many of us kinda look for you to screw your life up. Its horrible. I acknowledge this is also a factor. However, what we do and what you do are two totally different issues. You cant control us. You can control you however.
Remember your fans though. Remember that without those who look to you for happiness, inspiration, info, whatever, you wouldnt have the career you have. Yes you will have talent but as someone who is trying to get her talents seen by the masses, I have learned that sadly its a freaggin popularity contest as well. You can have little to no talent and you can have all the talent in the world. The moment you insult your fans or hurt them, thats the moment your talent means dick. Im sorry that you want your freedom to be whomever you want and you have this heavy burden. However this is the career you wanted. You didnt want this, you shouldnt have strived for it.
So I wish all celebrities to have a great new year. I hope you have success. I hope that you are healthy. If you have demons you need to control I hope you beat them and get yourself on track. I hope you learn a lot this year and I hope to see some people become better human beings.
Good luck to you all.
Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Monday, October 7, 2013
Dear Miley Cyrus.... again
I changed my mind. I was just gonna leave it at Sinead's letter to you but since that one letter, two more were written and well I need to clarify my sentiments.
Look babe, I want to make it clear that I genuinely do applaud you for doing whatever the fuck you want. I think there is nothing wrong with being how you are, if it is in fact who you really are.
My problem with your antics at the MTV Awards and your videos arent so much WHAT you are doing but how and why.
I get it, you are killing Hanna Montana. Good for you! Thats a character on a tv show, she wasnt real to begin with and when the public expects you to be that, it just shows how fucking stupid society can be.
It just looks weird to me. You look like you are trying too hard. Thats just my opinion though! I think Sinead believed that you were doing this because you were being brainwashed into thinking this is the right way to go about it.
The MTV Video Awards was a joke hun. It had nothing to do with the song. It had nothing to do with the clothes. For me that tongue is fucking annoying. You look special. Put it back in, it aint sexy or cute. (Again my opinion) it was just chaos and not organized chaos. Your peers were in that crowd. Other musicians and artists and they were looking at you like wtf, this is horrible. They werent offended! You did nothing offensive it just looked weird. Thats why I thought it was bad.
Now heres the thing, thats ok babe. So what? If you are not trying too hard and this IS truly you, thats fine. Good for you, just understand as a celebrity this is what is being perceived by others.
Now a little on Sinead,....
Look, YOU mentioned her. YOU said she influenced you and that video. Ummm.... I get it kinda.. but were you aware of her back story before you did so? You ARE aware that her convictions and her take on being an artist and WHY she made the music she did are WAAAAAAY different than yours right?
This woman got bombarded with phone calls, email, you name it from every media outlet asking her what her thought was on that because the media ALSO thought that was shocking that you even knew who Sinead was! She hates that shit, especially after how we in the US treated her. She doesnt trust the media as much as you do.
She wrote a letter cuz what you represent is not a reflection of her and she felt the need to write you a letter. I legitimately believe her letter came from a good place.
Now this is where I take high offense to you....
You responded to her letter to you with tweets referring to things you know nothing about.
You mocked her mental illness and Amanda Bynes as well (letter to be done shortly) and her past. That is beyond fucked up!
You have fans with mental illness from depression, to schizophrenia, to bipolar disorder, to autism. You "defended" yourself by reblogging things she posted out of context, referenced her mental illness by comparing her to Amanda Bynes, none of which had ANYTHING to do with her letter! What are you telling others with mental illness? That their opinion isnt valid because of their issues? That they arent to be listened to? Why would you do what you did? Why wouldnt you have just simply posted this...
"Everyone has a right to their opinion. I am who I am fucking deal with it. Thanks for your concern but butt out!"
That makes the point, short and sweet. You couldnt do that though. You had to make jabs at someone. Someone who writes a letter of concerned whether you feel its warranted or not.
I am not worried about you. I think you are a strong powerful woman. I agree with SOME of what Sinead said but I also know you are young and still need to experience life more. We all learn from the mistakes that happen. You will make loads. We all do. Does that mean this is a mistake? I dunno it depends on how you take it.
Stay true to you. Try to have a little more elegance when dealing with letters and advice. Shrug it off and be aware of those you may insult along the way. You are worth more than you think. Yet you are also a human being like everyone else. You have fans who love you. Be strong and happy
Look babe, I want to make it clear that I genuinely do applaud you for doing whatever the fuck you want. I think there is nothing wrong with being how you are, if it is in fact who you really are.
My problem with your antics at the MTV Awards and your videos arent so much WHAT you are doing but how and why.
I get it, you are killing Hanna Montana. Good for you! Thats a character on a tv show, she wasnt real to begin with and when the public expects you to be that, it just shows how fucking stupid society can be.
It just looks weird to me. You look like you are trying too hard. Thats just my opinion though! I think Sinead believed that you were doing this because you were being brainwashed into thinking this is the right way to go about it.
The MTV Video Awards was a joke hun. It had nothing to do with the song. It had nothing to do with the clothes. For me that tongue is fucking annoying. You look special. Put it back in, it aint sexy or cute. (Again my opinion) it was just chaos and not organized chaos. Your peers were in that crowd. Other musicians and artists and they were looking at you like wtf, this is horrible. They werent offended! You did nothing offensive it just looked weird. Thats why I thought it was bad.
Now heres the thing, thats ok babe. So what? If you are not trying too hard and this IS truly you, thats fine. Good for you, just understand as a celebrity this is what is being perceived by others.
Now a little on Sinead,....
Look, YOU mentioned her. YOU said she influenced you and that video. Ummm.... I get it kinda.. but were you aware of her back story before you did so? You ARE aware that her convictions and her take on being an artist and WHY she made the music she did are WAAAAAAY different than yours right?
This woman got bombarded with phone calls, email, you name it from every media outlet asking her what her thought was on that because the media ALSO thought that was shocking that you even knew who Sinead was! She hates that shit, especially after how we in the US treated her. She doesnt trust the media as much as you do.
She wrote a letter cuz what you represent is not a reflection of her and she felt the need to write you a letter. I legitimately believe her letter came from a good place.
Now this is where I take high offense to you....
You responded to her letter to you with tweets referring to things you know nothing about.
You mocked her mental illness and Amanda Bynes as well (letter to be done shortly) and her past. That is beyond fucked up!
You have fans with mental illness from depression, to schizophrenia, to bipolar disorder, to autism. You "defended" yourself by reblogging things she posted out of context, referenced her mental illness by comparing her to Amanda Bynes, none of which had ANYTHING to do with her letter! What are you telling others with mental illness? That their opinion isnt valid because of their issues? That they arent to be listened to? Why would you do what you did? Why wouldnt you have just simply posted this...
"Everyone has a right to their opinion. I am who I am fucking deal with it. Thanks for your concern but butt out!"
That makes the point, short and sweet. You couldnt do that though. You had to make jabs at someone. Someone who writes a letter of concerned whether you feel its warranted or not.
I am not worried about you. I think you are a strong powerful woman. I agree with SOME of what Sinead said but I also know you are young and still need to experience life more. We all learn from the mistakes that happen. You will make loads. We all do. Does that mean this is a mistake? I dunno it depends on how you take it.
Stay true to you. Try to have a little more elegance when dealing with letters and advice. Shrug it off and be aware of those you may insult along the way. You are worth more than you think. Yet you are also a human being like everyone else. You have fans who love you. Be strong and happy
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Dear Miley Cyrus....
Hey Hun, I've been wanting to write you a letter for an awfully long time but trying to find the perfect words have been difficult. Not to mention the fact that I have been far too busy to do this lately.
Thankfully, someone you claimed to look up to, Sinead O'Connor, read the Rolling Stones article and well, she did it for me. Well for any of us who feel you need to know this...
So instead of writing a huge letter, I'm just going to link to one I think you would more than likely read.
http://www.ourstage.com/blog/2013/10/3/sinead-oconnors-remarkable-open-letter-to-miley-cyrus
Be well.
Natalia
Thankfully, someone you claimed to look up to, Sinead O'Connor, read the Rolling Stones article and well, she did it for me. Well for any of us who feel you need to know this...
So instead of writing a huge letter, I'm just going to link to one I think you would more than likely read.
http://www.ourstage.com/blog/2013/10/3/sinead-oconnors-remarkable-open-letter-to-miley-cyrus
Be well.
Natalia
Friday, September 27, 2013
Dear Kanye West
Hey hun! How's it goin'?
Ok enough chit chat. Look dude, I know you THINK everything is going ok but ummm, no. Not even close.
Congrats on the baby. I am truly happy. You called her North West. Clever. No really, people have been given you shit for her name and honestly I don't get the big deal. Penn Gillette named his daughter Moxie Crime-fighter. Seriously, North is fine.
I'm not worried about you and that stuff though, I know you ignore the hate.
Here's the thing though, you are really crazy with the "Mightier than Thou" bullshit. It needs to stop. You're a fucking father now and you need to acknowledge you don't fucking own everything, its not all about you and you are not the king of the fucking world, no matter how much you tell yourself and the rest of the world that.
Look man, your cockiness is the stuff of legend and you know what? Fine. Thats fine. I heard your music and I can tell you clearly depend on your ego to get you where you gotta go cuz your shit is too generic and can slip through the cracks. I know that sounded disrespectful, I apologize, but as a musician I know the truth about the industry. There are a lot of musicians in this world coming up with original material. A LOT. There is always going to be someone out there who is more talented than ANY of us. Sadly this industry is not just about the talent. Its about the showmanship. Its about what rocks the media's world up. You are really good at keeping yourself in the know with your antics.I actually do respect that because it takes street smarts to know how to do that. Not a lot of people have that capability and I respect that. However, I think its sad that as a father now you will more than likely continue to do this and show your daughter a life that is not real. A life based on bullshit. She deserves more than that. She needs to learn humility, respect of others, accepting of other people's flaws and of her own. She needs a good family upbringing and considering her parents while I dont know Kim very well, she seems like a loving woman so I just hope you both raise that child right.
Look for someone who wants fans and a following being disrespectful to others is really not working out for you. Im sure you and Kim have had private time and I do wish people would respect your privacy a bit more especially now that you have a child because that quality time is very important. I gotta say, you are trying soo hard to keep a persona up you are neglecting the fact that you have a new job to do.
So you havent been around Kim a lot specifically during pregnancy. I get it you got a job. See though, all my letters to celebrities thus far have made the same true point: While it sucks that it is the case, whether you want the responsibility or not, the media is watching what you do and judging it. People see you and look up to you or look down and judge you.
If you dont want people thinking that you are distancing yourself from the Kardashian family then make a stronger effort to be there. The more we see you prancing around the globe working on business or whatever, the more they will see Kim alone with the baby. Dont give the media fodder. You think you are a great father, fucking prove it! Show the media and tell them to shut the fuck up and recognize a good parent. Look not all parents are perfect, I get it but at least show that you are trying.
You kinda didnt help yourself recently though. Jimmy Kimmel did a parody based on you and it was a fucking joke. It was a joke about you acting like a child.
Dude, seriously, you just fucked this up for yourself. You made yourself out to be more of an asshole than people already think. Instead of just brushing it off as a joke (because it was) You went on twitter and started writing shit about Jimmy like a fucking 15 year old girl! Well congrats dude because what you did was basically prove his point. You think you hurt him or damaged his cred? Babe, you just helped that sob get more viewers. You just made yourself look like a fucking idiot. You need to stop doing that shit and grow the fuck up.
You have a tendency to say shit without thinking. You have been doing it for year now. You are showing a lack of intelligence by continuing to fuck up and do it over and over again because clearly you are not learning from past mistakes.
I wish you the best. I sincerely do. For the benefit of your beautiful daughter. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to grow and be proud of what you have done for others. Dont make people look at you negatively. Your momma is looking down on her son and she has the right to be proud so do your momma proud and be a good person!
Ok enough chit chat. Look dude, I know you THINK everything is going ok but ummm, no. Not even close.
Congrats on the baby. I am truly happy. You called her North West. Clever. No really, people have been given you shit for her name and honestly I don't get the big deal. Penn Gillette named his daughter Moxie Crime-fighter. Seriously, North is fine.
I'm not worried about you and that stuff though, I know you ignore the hate.
Here's the thing though, you are really crazy with the "Mightier than Thou" bullshit. It needs to stop. You're a fucking father now and you need to acknowledge you don't fucking own everything, its not all about you and you are not the king of the fucking world, no matter how much you tell yourself and the rest of the world that.
Look man, your cockiness is the stuff of legend and you know what? Fine. Thats fine. I heard your music and I can tell you clearly depend on your ego to get you where you gotta go cuz your shit is too generic and can slip through the cracks. I know that sounded disrespectful, I apologize, but as a musician I know the truth about the industry. There are a lot of musicians in this world coming up with original material. A LOT. There is always going to be someone out there who is more talented than ANY of us. Sadly this industry is not just about the talent. Its about the showmanship. Its about what rocks the media's world up. You are really good at keeping yourself in the know with your antics.I actually do respect that because it takes street smarts to know how to do that. Not a lot of people have that capability and I respect that. However, I think its sad that as a father now you will more than likely continue to do this and show your daughter a life that is not real. A life based on bullshit. She deserves more than that. She needs to learn humility, respect of others, accepting of other people's flaws and of her own. She needs a good family upbringing and considering her parents while I dont know Kim very well, she seems like a loving woman so I just hope you both raise that child right.
Look for someone who wants fans and a following being disrespectful to others is really not working out for you. Im sure you and Kim have had private time and I do wish people would respect your privacy a bit more especially now that you have a child because that quality time is very important. I gotta say, you are trying soo hard to keep a persona up you are neglecting the fact that you have a new job to do.
So you havent been around Kim a lot specifically during pregnancy. I get it you got a job. See though, all my letters to celebrities thus far have made the same true point: While it sucks that it is the case, whether you want the responsibility or not, the media is watching what you do and judging it. People see you and look up to you or look down and judge you.
If you dont want people thinking that you are distancing yourself from the Kardashian family then make a stronger effort to be there. The more we see you prancing around the globe working on business or whatever, the more they will see Kim alone with the baby. Dont give the media fodder. You think you are a great father, fucking prove it! Show the media and tell them to shut the fuck up and recognize a good parent. Look not all parents are perfect, I get it but at least show that you are trying.
You kinda didnt help yourself recently though. Jimmy Kimmel did a parody based on you and it was a fucking joke. It was a joke about you acting like a child.
Dude, seriously, you just fucked this up for yourself. You made yourself out to be more of an asshole than people already think. Instead of just brushing it off as a joke (because it was) You went on twitter and started writing shit about Jimmy like a fucking 15 year old girl! Well congrats dude because what you did was basically prove his point. You think you hurt him or damaged his cred? Babe, you just helped that sob get more viewers. You just made yourself look like a fucking idiot. You need to stop doing that shit and grow the fuck up.
You have a tendency to say shit without thinking. You have been doing it for year now. You are showing a lack of intelligence by continuing to fuck up and do it over and over again because clearly you are not learning from past mistakes.
I wish you the best. I sincerely do. For the benefit of your beautiful daughter. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to grow and be proud of what you have done for others. Dont make people look at you negatively. Your momma is looking down on her son and she has the right to be proud so do your momma proud and be a good person!
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